Associated with pension transfer sex work, webcamming doesn’t have the best reputation. It’s often known as exploitation or perhaps a last-resort hustle to debt, but Reed Amber, 26, explains how webcam models are merely your average self-employed freelancers with the same amount of agency and independence anyone else.
Model, producer and co-creator of YouTube channel ComeCurious, Reed is actually the physical embodiment of sex positivity, which she defines as “trying to produce people feel like what they’re doing along with what they’re into isn’t wrong, it’s normal and it’s absolutely fine.” She’s an enormous advocate for removing stigma and taboos around sex, so we involved along with her to explore webcamming, a distinctive line of sex work which is seldom discussed.
Why do you think that some men, and probably women also, prefer it to porn?
“There’s much free porn that we feel webcamming is much more of an personal one-on-one. You’ll be able to use the internet in order to find any ol’ stuff, but webcamming is a lot more personal; it’s tailored exactly as to the you need as well as what you’re searching for. You’re not sharing it with 100 thousand other people. Here is your show. More often than not you build up a relationship, I speak with you as a friend i respect you as a person. ‘How has your mood been, what have you get from the shops, what are you cooking for dinner…’ it’s as an online relationship”
…So it’s similar to the ‘girlfriend experience’?
“Yes, it’s very much like the girlfriend experience. However that also is dependent upon what the webcam model is a lot like and in addition exactly what the person paying is much like because everyone wants something else entirely.”
Perhaps you have had say no to a request?
“I’m one of the cam girls who rarely refuse. I’ve always wanted to try new things, but that’s not because I felt like I needed to. It’s just personally some tips i want to do. I would like to tick stuff off my list, I wish to fit everything in once particularly if looking at sex positivity. Regardless of whether it’s something I’m not really into, I’d still have a go. Easily didn’t as it, I’d end up like ‘sorry, I’m not really into that.’ But there’s lots of people that would avoid almost everything.”
Any kind of really common requests you will get?
“It depends upon the profile that you set up because once you come up with a profile, you write a little bio about you, and my bio may be viewed as a somewhat more ‘out there’. I’m available to anything, like roleplay, so a lot of the time I buy roleplay requests, more simply because I have discovered them fun regardless how unusual or bizarre they are. What excites me are uncommon and weird requests that you just wouldn’t really encounter. Life’s too boring otherwise”
Site to react when you say to them what you do?
“I get a blend of emotions. Mostly people react positively because of the way I discuss it. It’s so different if you’re really shy and timid and quiet regarding it. It immediately sends out this idea of ‘oh they’re not completely ok with it.’
Basically you are free to turn out to be sex-positive self in your full potential…
“Exactly! That’s where I got my first taste of sex positivity. Experiencing my relationships all night to university I had been like ‘woah, nobody thinks the way I do, I need to be weird’. Being a webcam model, I realised everybody is into something different, they merely feel as if they can’t talk about it.”
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